CONSEQUENCES OF INFERIORITY COMPLEX IN THE SOCIETY
What is inferiority complex?
The oxford dictionary defines inferiority complex as a feeling that you are not as good, as important, or intelligent as others, that is correct, but let’s now define it more realistically.
Inferiority complex is a state of mind in which a person feels or is made to feel he/she is not as good as others in what ever category of life the circumstance may apply to.
People really need to think deep about why they are made they way there are, but I will tell why, its obvious that you are unique and special, look around you there’s no one like you, you are the first of your kind the is no other that is you, you are you and they can’t be another. You might not accept this but those you wish you have what they are having, at lease those you can see and that are around you, are wishing the same about you, but you will fine it hard to believe because you can’t take the time you have taken to look at them, to look at yourself first, they have found what you haven’t about you, just like you have found what they haven’t about themselves.
The greatest love we seek is the one we have, its in us and its us, we need to love ourselves, love the way you look and appear in the mirror, however you are and what ever you are, you can’t say you love a person when do not love our own self, think and look deep inside you and you will realize that the greatest love starts the very first day we begin to love and appreciate they way we are and look, because that feeling brings security, fulfillment, happiness, and boldness and self confidence. What matters the most about your life and you is the things that you let in inside, you have to put yourself in the position to always have the final say concerning anything related with you. The problem with most people today is that they focus more on wishing they were, than focusing on how they are, one thing you have to know is that no matter how perfect a person looks, there’s no such thing has perfect. Every body and everything have their short comings, but the problem is that many people see themselves as the only one with it. You can’t have it all; you work toward making what you have all you have. e.g
Many blacks these day fail to recognize the potentiality of their black skin, the uniqueness of its nature, a priceless color, black skin is the only skin color that can’t be built, and that’s because it was specially made, so those wearing such colors should be thankful and appreciative of what they have, that’s why something the saying of we do not know what we have until we lose it really hurts, when its gone.
CAUSES OF INFERIORITY COMPLEX
Inferiority complex are caused in different ways, conscious and subconsciously, and it is easily picked up by the victim, a friend can say it jokingly and they will all laugh about it, but the person whom its said to, might also laugh or put a swift smile but has taken note, it might not be at the spot but later it will spring to his/her mind, and there it begins. That is subconscious act of inferiority complex, the conscious aspect is when a person looks at you and list to your face things he/she sees on you, that makes you looks what they would call ugly. Stigma kills but in this case affects more than what ever it is that is being stigmatized. So if you are engaging on pointing others short comings to them take a little minute to think at the journey you are beginning and also you would like to remove the dirt from your eye so you can see clearly.
CONSEQUENCES OF INFERIORITY COMPLEX
This little thing that sounds like just a word in most people’s lips can lead to death in the long run, engaging in business that makes others feel bad about themselves is a very dangerous thing, people who are affected emotionally by this stigma would do anything humanly possible to get rid of what ever it is that people say about them to make them feel this way, a very good examples of a person who on along run lost his life as a result of inferiority complex from the people around him, his own family members is our great legend Michael Jackson, we all know he was said to have had a nose surgery due to the fact that his brothers even father use to call him big nose, his brothers would use that jokingly to make fun of him, and when he had the money he decided to make things right as he thought, anybody that saw Michael would wish he was like him, that even lead to him turning himself to fully white, he was the envy of many in the world, he had it all, I myself at a point had wish I could do the things he does, because am his greatest fan, but it just rather unfortunate that all that glitters isn’t gold, the biggest mistake about you starts the very second you start wishing you were someone else and start buying negative things people say concerning you and letting it get into you, because if Michael had not allowed what his family members were saying about him get into him, the world would still be celebrating a living legend than celebrating a dead legend. So however you are, I want you to realize that you are specially made and that you are the only of your kind, and they can never be another you, no matter now they try. So make a diamond out of you. Michael would wish the same for himself if he could get a second chance.
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